Memorandum of Understanding, Divorce Mediation

Divorce mediation is a voluntary, confidential process in which a neutral third party—the mediator—helps spouses work through the issues of divorce and reach mutually acceptable agreements. Rather than having decisions made by a judge, mediation allows couples to remain in control of the outcomes that affect their lives and their family.

The mediator does not take sides or make decisions. Instead, they guide productive discussions, help identify options, and support informed decision-making on issues such as property division, parenting plans, child support, and spousal support.

Mediation typically involves a series of structured sessions virtually. During these sessions, the mediator helps both parties:

• Identify the issues that need to be resolved
   
• Share information and clarify concerns
   
• Explore options and negotiate agreements
   
• Focus on practical, future-oriented solutions
   

Once agreements are reached, the mediator prepares a Memorandum of Understanding (MOU) summarizing the decisions made. Each party is encouraged to have the agreement reviewed by an independent attorney before it is finalized and filed with the court.

Divorce mediation offers many advantages over traditional litigation, including:

• Greater control: You make the decisions, not a judge
   
• Lower cost: Mediation is typically far less expensive than court proceedings
   
• Faster resolution: Agreements can often be reached in weeks or months, not years
   
• Confidentiality: Discussions in mediation are private
   
• Reduced conflict: The process encourages cooperation and respectful communication
   
• Child-focused solutions: Particularly helpful for parents creating co-parenting plans

Mediation works well for many couples, including those who:

• Want a more respectful, less adversarial process
   
• Are willing to negotiate in good faith
   
• Wish to protect their children from conflict
   
• Prefer privacy and efficiency
   

Mediation may not be appropriate in cases involving ongoing domestic violence, severe power imbalances, or an unwillingness to participate honestly. An initial consultation can help determine whether mediation is a good fit.

Divorce is a significant life transition, but it does not have to be destructive. Divorce mediation offers a structured, compassionate approach to resolving disputes and moving forward with clarity and dignity.